Infancy - How to Bond With Your Newborn - Social Emotional

• Have some skin-to-skin cuddle time – hold the baby and stroke him/her gently. Human touch is soothing for both you and your baby.
• Look into your baby's eyes and talk and sing to them regularly.
• If your baby has to spend some time in intensive care and is hooked up to wires and monitors, ask the hospital staff to help you safely touch and hold your baby.

Over time, you'll get to know and enjoy your newborn, learn how to comfort them, and your feelings will deepen. 

When should I worry?

If, after a few weeks, you find that you don't feel more attached to and comfortable with your baby than you did the first day, or if you actually feel detached and resentful of him, talk about it. Your partner, family, and friends can help you feel less isolated and alone, and discussing your feelings with your baby's doctor and your own doctor or midwife is the key to getting help.

Postpartum depression is real and can affect bonding. In this case, it's best to seek help as soon as possible.

Early intervention can prevent your relationship with your child from deteriorating. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to win back your baby's trust and affection.